i think i understand why some of us don't get it sometimes. we need something enormous as a meteorite to hit our dormant brains to get the point. and guess what? i've been there and done that. we may feel blinded, cheated, betrayed, vindicated or close to killing oneself for being in such a difficult and complex position. being stubborn is obviously an understatement.and not to mention, ego. and the worse part of it all, to some of them, it seems trivial, but to us, it screams "OH.MY.GOD!!!" but at the end of the day, as cliche as it may sound, you always, always have to look at the brightside of it all and thank god that it happend for a reason.
good riddance.gone.for.good.